Too Old and Sensible for Adventure

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Life is all about the journey.  But sometimes everyday life gets in the way of taking a specific path, however awesome it might sound.

I’m talking about the Visit England campaign to find someone to tour the country (all expenses paid) and blog/tweet/photograph/video it for 12 weeks this summer.  The lucky traveller will get to follow the Olympic Torch as it makes its way through England, finding out what is so great about our fair land, and telling everyone about their experiences along the way. And it sounds incredible. I’d love it. The travelling, the writing, seeing different places, trying out different things, learning loads about this place where I was born. Look – http://enjoyengland.typepad.com/fan-in-a-van/2012/03/englands-biggest-fan.html – what a wonderful opportunity for someone who loves writing and wants to get a bit of adventure. It would be an amazing opportunity for me. It would be something never to forget.

Fan in a Van Photo from Enjoy England

But the fact is I’m not really what they’re looking for.  They’re looking for someone who is not doing anything for 12 weeks from mid-May… someone young… someone willing to throw themselves into the task without a second glance behind them.  Even the web address for applications is something to do with students.  And of course as a 31 year old home-owning full-time-employed married hobby-blogging sensible person, I don’t fit into that. Several people have made suggestions such as taking a sabbatical, which I appreciate because it means people believe that I could do it, but it doesn’t help the fact that there is no way “all expenses paid” includes my mortgage. Or that I would actually miss my husband a great deal.

I sit and wonder what would happen if I felt confident enough to drop everything and go for that opportunity. Assuming I got through the selection process and was the one chosen to take the trip, I imagine myself in that camper van, driving through some of the best scenery the country has to offer. I would eat proper pasties in Helston, pork pies in Melton Mowbray, Bakewell Tarts in Bakewell, sausages in Lincoln. I would surf at Fistral Beach,  jet wash an elephant at Longleat, ride Rita Queen of Speed at Alton Towers, take a trip in a boat along the Norfolk Broads. I’d visit Buckingham Palace, Dover Castle, St Michael’s Mount, Blackpool Tower. All the time telling the world about my fantastic journey.  What an amazing three months it would be!

But I’m not. Risk taking can be very expensive – personally, professionally and financially. And while I most likely have a Type A personality, I’m not so far to that end of the scale I will go for things whatever the cost. Which is probably why I just plod through life enjoying the moment but never making a real statement. This experience has been designed for an undergraduate student wanting some fun for three months after their exams. Not for me.

I guess it’s the same as the old dream I have of becoming a Blue Peter presenter (I’d make an awesome Blue Peter presenter!). It just ain’t gonna happen. Because I’m too old and too sensible.

But… I do love adventure and experiencing new things. I just have to keep my plans a tad smaller than 12 weeks in a camper van. A few years ago I created my ultimate to do list – a long and ever-expanding list of little adventures I want to have. My bucket list if you like.  Some are tiny – like eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich; others are massive – like go on a motorbike tour across the West of the USA. Some are about learning things – like  ice skating backwards; others are about raising money for charity – like taking part in a trek up Kilimanjaro or somewhere equally as challenging. Some are about travel – such as visiting Niagara Falls; others are all about adrenaline – like wing walking.

Since I wrote my list I’ve crossed loads of things off. I’ve done a tandem skydive, a bungee jump, walked several marathons, been in the audience of a TV show, had a photo published, done jet skiing (best thing so far!), learnt to surf and ski, completed a Masters degree, ridden a Harley-Davidson from John O’Groats to Land’s End (a number of things in one go there!), and loads more. I’ve blogged about many of those things. And the list is always growing, I’m always adding things, and am always planning when I can turn the next thing green.

I might be too old and too sensible for a massive “leave everything behind” kind of adventure, but I’m loving life with all my little challenges and experiences. And I hope you’ll still read my blog even if I’m not a full time blogger taking part in the adventure of a lifetime. Oh wait, I am taking part in the adventure of a lifetime – I am taking part in my own journey.

So thank you Visit England for giving me something to dream about. This particular thing might be unobtainable for me in my current situation, but it doesn’t stop me (or anyone else for that matter) living in the moment and doing unforgettable things.

Life is all about the journey.  Bring on where ever it takes me next!

9 Responses

  1. Sue

    I wouldn’t qualify either being old, grey and decrepit!! Oh and being Welsh!!

  2. cotswoldclaire

    Yey!!! Go Zoe, that’s how I felt at the end of this blog. Really enjoyed it and I am now off to live my life to the full too 🙂

    Thank you!

  3. Fuzzygalore

    What a great post. I’m totally feeling you – though I’ve a few years on you so watch the “old” stuff 😉

    It definitely can be hard to find the balance between your whimsical, selfish pursuits and the life that you’ve already set in motion – as you said, having to pay a mortgage and having dependent family members.

    Some people will flippantly say sell the house or your family will understand. And maybe that works for them. But, when you want a little taste of everything – sometimes those simple answers don’t fit.

    So – take your adventures in small doses, but do take them. Nothing wrong with having your cake and eating it too. 🙂

    • Splodz

      Thanks 🙂
      I agree, adventure is good, as is cake – I like cake. It’s why I have my list, it means I can do all the normal stuff I should be doing like own a house and hold down a decent job, but also means I can taste the sweetness of my have-a-go attitude.

  4. Raymond

    Never too old or sensible for adventure. If you had applied and been successful, Visit England just might have let you turn it into a family adventure, hubby and all.

    You never know, unless you dip your toe!

    • Splodz

      Too true, and as it happened the person they chose wasn’t a student but a 30-year-old who was a little bit like me. I guess I shall have to be more willing to get wet!

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